To be fair, I don’t fault my partner for where he’s coming from.Lorraine Spencer is a resourceful, inspiring and motivating personal coach who assists those on their journey to find their life mates.
s a person who sees life’s interactions through a sociolinguistic lens, I find it fascinating to explore how people discuss their relationships.
Many Black women are taught to only view Black men as romantic partners.
"Like most Black women, I was conditioned to pledge allegiance to the Black man," Salvant told For Harriet via email.
My partner, however, aligns more closely to the ideologies of Ayaan Hirsi Ali, nerds out about science and , and looks like a J. He is the visual personification of every white supremacist’s wet dream, and, like something out of a Hallmark movie, we are quite in love.
And yes, we bicker all the time, usually about privilege and power and systems of oppression that continuously dehumanize and invalidate and maim non-privileged folk.